
A Growing Friendship and Our Lives As Doctor Who
Fans
Although Andrew and I had
been good friends at school, it wasn’t until we’d both left Wimbledon
College that our friendship entered ‘best buddy’ territory. We spent
nearly all of our spare time together, more often than not at this point
in the company of his two brothers, and it was this solid friendship that
generated a whole variety of Doctor Who-related activities, as well as our
mutual love of Jazz and general socialising.
Both our sets of parents
were amazingly tolerant of our friendship, especially as it revolved
almost entirely around Doctor Who in one form or another. Having said that
there was the odd occasion when tempers would fray, notably by my mum in
the aforementioned missing VCR episode, and also by Andrew’s mum due to
the sheer amount of time I spent at their house. As families, the Clancys
and the Coxes (though my mum hadn’t been a ‘Cox’ since 1981) were
fundamentally different. Ours was a broken family in that my mum had been
married and divorced twice by this point and it was just her and I living
in a small flat, whereas Peter and Linda Clancy had been married since
1970, as they still are today. As a family the Clancys were more in the
typical English mould than my own; their culture was generally more formal
than I had experienced with my own upbringing in an Anglo-Italian family.
Saying that, I very much enjoyed being in their company as a result of
their family life; I’m not saying that my own life was unstable because
that’s not the case, but being with my best friend’s family was the stable
3-bed semi life that I’d never had.
As
I had never had a ‘best friend’ as such before, other than one notable
exception a few years beforehand, my mum embraced Andrew and his family as
a welcome and positive aspect of my life, to the point where Andrew would
also spend time at our flat, particularly at weekends when he would stay
overnight. As my interest in Doctor Who grew, my bedroom was transformed
from a run-of-the-mill room into a shrine to the series, with nearly every
available inch of wall space given over to pictures, posters and other
artwork, as can clearly be seen in this photo. Sadly, all of these items
have long been disposed of, with the ironic exception of a Nicola Bryant
postcard which I still have at home amongst some assorted photographs, the
irony being that I’d probably have been more turned on by a Cyberman
poster than a photo of Nicola Bryant. The more time we spent together, the
more time we devoted to Doctor Who, and we got up to all sorts of
activities including watching videos, recording silly home-made audio
stories (both serious productions and humorous ad-libbed attempts),
recording our own alternative versions of existing story soundtracks,
listening to and playing around with the theme tune (often recording our
own versions on electronic keyboards), attending conventions, signings and
exhibitions, visiting filming locations and even producing our own Fan
Video stories.
I’d like to share some
memories with you from that happy period of the late Eighties to the
mid-Nineties, as this was the time when we were at our peak as both
friends and Doctor Who fans. Although most of the things we got up to were
fairly random in the order they occurred, I’ll try and group the different
activities together for the sake of clarity rather than try to be strictly
chronological, starting with our serious attempts at audio stories.
Next Episode: Planet of
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